Epiphany

"No man is worth your tears, and the one who is won't make you cry."
Let me begin with saying that there are several things incorrect about this statement. The one who is worth your tears WILL make you cry. In fact, you will probably cry often. This is because relationships are not perfect. This leads me to the second issue. Because of statements like these, women today seek perfection. They look for the guy who they don't fight with and it's never hard. This person doesn't exist. Relationships are not easy and they have never been easy. You can look at generation to generations of people from your parents to your grandparents and I am positive they have been through stuff. Sticky, ugly stuff and have made it through. This leads to my 3rd discovery. Seeking perfection has caused our generation to accept relationship failure far too easy. It gets hard and people bounce. Which I am guessing is why there are so many divorces now a days. I wish it was the days where divorce was frowned upon. People actually had to WORK on their relationship, forgive one another, and accept that neither are perfect and issues will arrise. So ladies, do yourself a favor. Stop looking for perfection, he is not out there and I can guarentee that you are not perfect either. Accept that there will be fights and that sometimes times might be hard. The fact is those hard times only make your relationship stronger so by walking out at those hard times because he isn't Mr. perfect is only hurting yourself.