Epiphany

"No man is worth your tears, and the one who is won't make you cry."
Let me begin with saying that there are several things incorrect about this statement. The one who is worth your tears WILL make you cry. In fact, you will probably cry often. This is because relationships are not perfect. This leads me to the second issue. Because of statements like these, women today seek perfection. They look for the guy who they don't fight with and it's never hard. This person doesn't exist. Relationships are not easy and they have never been easy. You can look at generation to generations of people from your parents to your grandparents and I am positive they have been through stuff. Sticky, ugly stuff and have made it through. This leads to my 3rd discovery. Seeking perfection has caused our generation to accept relationship failure far too easy. It gets hard and people bounce. Which I am guessing is why there are so many divorces now a days. I wish it was the days where divorce was frowned upon. People actually had to WORK on their relationship, forgive one another, and accept that neither are perfect and issues will arrise. So ladies, do yourself a favor. Stop looking for perfection, he is not out there and I can guarentee that you are not perfect either. Accept that there will be fights and that sometimes times might be hard. The fact is those hard times only make your relationship stronger so by walking out at those hard times because he isn't Mr. perfect is only hurting yourself.

Brianhead

We, and when I say we I mean 28 people, had a cabin in Brianhead for the weekend last weekend. The weekend was a massive birthday celebration. The weekend turned out very eventful, as always. The cabin was full of 3 clicks of people, which was probably a mistake. Lesson learned but it was still a great time.
The first night was this big night, which always happens. We were so excited to be there and party that we all got crazy. For some reason I cant recall what hap pend that night right now, I'm drawing a blank? Lots of drinking. The next morning I woke up not remembering why my hair was wet and how I got to bed. Dane took care of me the night before when he found me in the shower with the water running sleeping on the floor. He put me to bed. He is good to me. I felt like crap this morning and was awaken by Brianna checking to make sure we were still going snowboarding. I assured her we would meet her at the mountain. Dane and I got ready slowly and made our way to the slopes with all the other beginners (Dane had never been snowboarding). Somehow I was the one that got injured. We have the whole wreck on video, me slamming my head against the ice and everyone laughing. Good times. I'm still feeling the after effects. I was done after this and that was my first run. We ate at this pizza joint and went home. I laid in bed in pain for a while and then made my way back out of our room to socialized I played 12 rounds of Mexican train game and tongjena ( Jenga with your tongue and lips) with Brianna and her friends before I joined my other click. We got drunk and went to bed again. The weekend was good and I didn't want to come home. On our way home we stopped at Cracker Barrel, the same as the drive out there. I wish we had one in Vegas but I think it makes it that much better that its not something we can have all the time. Dane drove me and John home as we passed out on the drive home. Dane and I spent the rest of Sunday relaxing and watching videos and going through pictures, finishing out the day with a movie. <3